Kiwis Can-Do COVID

Kiwis Can-Do COVID

Three ways to support relationships through the ongoing COVID experience Our New Zealand team of five million seems mostly to have been able to navigate the COVID experience with a kiwi can-do attitude. We initially managed the short term uncertainty by moving into...

Where Did the Love Go

Where Did the Love Go

What happened to the ‘in love’ feeling?  When Tuakana and Samantha first got together their love seemed perfect and never ending. The conflict that had started to happen was leaving them both hurt and unhappy. According to Gottman (2014), relationships transition...

It is your fault

It is your fault

When a conflict arises, we sometimes look for an explanation of what is happening. In this process of finding an explanation we can become acutely aware of perceived offending actions or inactions of our partners.

In contrast, we can perceive our own actions as a response to their offending behaviour.