When a conflict arises, we sometimes look for an explanation of what is happening. In this process of finding an explanation we can become acutely aware of perceived offending actions or inactions of our partners.

In contrast, we can perceive our own actions as a response to their offending behaviour.

Routine can save your marriage
Establish routines that work for your family and marriage relationships. When we live with uncertainty, it can be helpful to create some certainty in our lives.